Más amor, por favor

"Two things I have learned from the world of couples: one, that we all love in different ways, and two, that loving is not enough to be happy in a relationship." These words from Arantxa Coca, who has participated as a relationship specialist on various television reality shows (The Island of Temptations, Married at First Sight...), show that love is something complex, although necessary and vital. It is not about removing the illusion of butterflies in our stomach, but about keeping them with discipline and wisdom. At some point Snow White told Prince Charming, "Don't talk to me when you see me stressed," and the prince had to take note of that, in addition to loving her. And at some other point Prince Charming said to Snow White, "I wish you would spend more time with me in the palace instead of always going to Ibiza with the maidens," and Snow White had to take note of that besides loving him. That plus, that extra that you have to throw on love, is what the book you have in your hands is about. More love, please help us build a healthy, educated and compatible couple. It teaches us not to use incendiary phrases that devastate the relationship and, instead, extinguishers, those that allow us to turn each crisis into an opportunity to reinforce our love. And it helps us choose those people who fit our love style to form the perfect combo.