El poder de la discordia

If the healthy relationships paradigm revolves around the idea of ??harmony, it is reasonable to think that fights and disagreements are the antithesis. But is it possible to build solid bridges in a relationship where discord permeates? In reality, in the countless moments in which we interact, we are only in sync most of the time, and it is good that it is so, since it allows us to create closer bonds with family, partner, friends and colleagues it is precisely the repair of the conflict, because it involves the implicit knowledge that we can overcome problems. The power of discord reveals what happens when disagreements appear between people and how we can move from disagreement to harmonious reconnection. Working on constant imbalances to solve them, instead of opting for silence and avoidance, helps us to establish deep, lasting and trusting relationships, as well as to acquire resilience in situations of stress and trauma. There is no need to fear open conflict: this will be the process that leads to true emotional and social well-being.